I swear to god this is the LAST thread I'm making about this
Yeah, I've decided the best decision is to forget about her and move on. So far I've blocked her and deleted her on FB, email etc, and I've tried my best to not think about her.
Advice, has anyone here had to do this, if so, how long did it take, and how did you do it?
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Ban feelings
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Take up a hobby or some form of activity you really enjoy, especially things you can do with a group. Don't make any more posts/threads about her and don't bring her up in conversations. If she does come up, move the conversation in a different direction. Do good things for people without being asked, and go the extra mile for others. Tell other people ([i]without being a flatterer[/i]) how much you appreciate them, especially if they do something for you. Investigate music, games, or activities you haven't much been exposed to. Set a really tough but good goal for yourself, like reading X classic books or being able to do Y amount of physical activity. Engage your mind with themes besides romance. Don't do nothing--if you're like me, you'll gravitate towards thinking about her. Don't bother [i]trying[/i] to stop thinking about her. Preoccupy yourself with worthwhile tasks and ideas, and if you're daydreaming, find something real to pay attention to. If you make a habit of thinking about good things, you won't have the time to dwell on the past. I hope that helps.
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Smh. That is all.
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Ganbare.
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Hmmmm Interesting
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Edited by iceblue: 4/19/2015 1:02:33 AMremoved
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Have relations with other females, hang with friends, idk whatever..
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Once more unto the breach, eh Foreveraloner? Ok let's see what we got... Oh my -blam!-. You can't be serious? You can't take these precautions, if you like her that much you'll only think about her. JUST GET OUT OF YOUR HOUSE AND ENJOY LIFE YOU MORON!
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so let me get this straight......you never had this girl,yet you still like her(despite that fact she dont want you). so now you're going threw all this crap so you can get over her?