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2/22/2013 4:37:47 PM
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Should I send this message?
First I'd like to say, I'm aware that my posts of a rather depressing, loserish nature have gathered me some dislike around here. I'd prefer criticism to be constructive but if you feel the need to insult me or 'lol' at me then just say it because I probably deserve it.
So it's been a whole week and my friend has been ignoring me. I'm th king of sending this to her
[quote]Ignoring me all week got the point across. I won't hang around with you anymore if that's what you want. I know I can be a dick, and a creep, and sometimes annoying, so I'm not blaming you, but you should have just said something. Clearly you've never been ignored before because if you had you'd know how much it really, really hurts, especially from a friend(?). Hope you have a nice weekend knowing you won't have to see my ugly face ever again from Monday onwards.[/quote]
Should I send this, something else, or nothing at all?
I will take on board any advice
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I'm sorry, Dave, but I can't let you do that.
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Edited by CurvedBubbles: 2/22/2013 7:04:23 PMDon't send it man, trust me. Don't send anything.
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Edited by Maverick: 2/22/2013 6:35:39 PM[quote]Should I send this, something else, or nothing at all?[/quote] nothing at all
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4 RepliesYou trying to guilt someone into hanging out with you makes you no better than her. Just talk to her in person and say I feel hurt that you are ignoring me what did I do to cause it? Txting is cowardly and the way you are writing it is certainly the wrong way about doing it.
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Don't do anything. People who are childish enough to ignore you don't deserve your time.
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Edited by xlegitxprox420x: 2/22/2013 6:09:59 PMJust be straight to the point and leave it at "Ingnoring me all week got the point across." If you're right about her that will be that, you show you have mutual understanding. If you're wrong she will try to clear the misunderstandings and open up to you. The long-wided self-hate rant will just make you look like you're overreacting and will be ignored.
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Do it.
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2 RepliesCamm is right. See below for the only advice you need. Grow a pair and tell her she can either be friends or you'll leave her alone. Simple as that.
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Ill be your friend :)
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I'd leave sending it and ignore her whenever you see her unless she shows interest in why you are ignoring her completely. If you already appear as a creeper to this girl then sending a message filled with lots of "fluff" isn't going to change her opinion.
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3 RepliesQuestion, what happened to cause this?
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Edited by CAMMCAM: 2/22/2013 5:02:01 PMHere's some advice.... no one cares that you think so negatively about yourself and reading/hearing it is a complete turn off in any way you look at it. I couldn't be friend's with someone that constantly put themselves down. Some people have a huge ego and need to get over themselves, that would apply to you as well. If you feel you just HAVE to send something to her... [quote]Ignoring me all week got the point across. I won't hang around with you anymore if that's what you want.[/quote] this is all you should be sending. The rest is complete garbage.
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8 RepliesI need some background to properly advise you. Wominzz are a tricky bunch. If what I suspect is the case, she is trying to get a rise out of you, and get more attention. It may even mean she's romantically interested. Then again, you could have been bugging her this whole time and she wants you to kick rocks... So I need details.
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Edited by Cultmeister: 2/22/2013 4:45:20 PMi guess. i mean it would get the message across (if she reads it that is)
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8 RepliesEdited by welderman adam: 2/22/2013 4:42:14 PMCan you whip up a title page or drawing of some sort? A picture is worth how many words? Express man, express.
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1 ReplySure, why not?
