Yes, this is a girl thread. I will put it in 4chan green text style (without the green) because I think it's faster to read. I also know this is the Flood, but opinions can't hurt. It's kind of a lengthy story, so let me get right to it: > Know this girl for 3 years. Didn't really talk much until about 7-8 months ago (During the summer) > Become great friends doing community hours (I'm in high, school, both 16, she's about 15 days older) > Find out I see her everyday at school > Is really flirty/touchy/wants to be around me more in our social circle/ wants to hang out a lot. > Did things touch me a lot, stare at me while I stared at her, etc. > Decide I want to ask her out. Me being stupid, tell her through IM, look like a wimp, really screw up. Asked her half and half (it's complicated) > Become depressed for weeks. Decide I can't take it anymore. > Cut almost all contact. Only talk to her to say a couple of words as well as hi and bye. > Hang with the boys of the group and be around them. She stops giving me that attention > It's been about 3 months of me being cold. Asks me 3 times if I want to hang out/ mentioning that we should hang out. I give her the cold shoulder and make excuses > Doing a marathon of no fap to see if I can pull it off, she wants to know about it > Conversation becomes lighthearted, about our "parts", and we both discuss our urging frustrations (we're both virgins). She says she's happy she can finally tell someone and she says she really trusts me > She's really hot, I think she completely forgot that I used to want to go out with her. > Decide she isn't girlfriend material, and has hinted not liking to be committed but likes the attention of being in a relationship. > No fap month testosterone kicks in. Really want to make a move, its been a week since we had that "urges" talk and now it happens every couple times. I see now that she is more touchy around me, and she let me massage her neck and stuff. > Today invited me to go to her house tomorrow, tell her I'd see. The thing is that she is quite the flirt. I've called her out on it, and she says that she knows she's a bit touchy, but I feel some tension at times. An example was today, when we were playing with food and she got me pretty dirty so she gave me a long hug which she didn't pull away from. Should I go for it at her house (I'm afraid she'll see me as a friend again if nothing happens, mainly due to her parents being home/ having a 10 year old little brother)? Should I cancel? Do I just kiss her? Ask her to be FWB (friends with benefits)? Also, I'm not only a virgin, but a kissless one at that. She kind of knows, and I feel like that would affect my game. Not to mention the fact that she tells me about a guy she likes that I sort of talk to, but the guy also knows she likes him. I think they both sort of like each other, but none of them are making moves on each other.