My 'friend' is an arsehole. Not all the time, but he's done some pretty stupid things.
He's tried and threatened to restart problems with someone I had found peace with after a bad falling out.
He's threatened to go on my Facebook multiple times by taking my phone or iPad when I'm signed in to send messages and make statuses like "I have sex with cats." My grandma is on Facebook, that would not be a good idea.
He's threatened to try and make me look like an idiot in front of a girl I went on some dates with
Threatened to draw dicks on a goddamn collage I made of friends that I wanted to put in our shared locker at school.
Chances are there are some things I can't think of at the present time, but there's all the little things too. Driving off and locking the doors when I try and get in the car, only to pull up a few metres away and then drive away again when I get close.
Or the times he'll ignore messages when another friend needs a lift, not because he minds driving people around, but because it's funny to screw with peoples plans even if they include himself.
Tonight, he threatened to send my number to a random girl who added him asking for his. He said it didn't work because she blocked him, but in reality I blocked her through his account.
I don't know if he actually did try and send it, or if his messages after claiming he didn't were true.
Thing is, I kept forgiving him. Kept thinking, hey, he's just doing it for the lulz.
TL;DR
Yeah, these are all first world problems, but when you're friends with someone, shouldn't you be able to trust them? Shouldn't (after the third time) they stop when you say you've had enough of just... Crap?
He's my buddy, but seriously... What do?
I can't just keep doing this, he needs to grow up.
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Treat him like he treats you. Have fun.
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Delete your Facebook account and get learned. Oh, he's also not your friend, he's a jerk. Get rid of him.
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Kick his ass.