Except it’s not. You don’t just get over grief. The Nightmares specifically targeted fears or insecurities within those they were bonded to. Zavala’s wears the face of his wife and blames him for the death of Hakim because he felt he should be blamed, it’s why he left her. That has nothing to do with Zavala being presented with the chance to have his family back. I’m beginning to think half of these people on these forums have never lost someone close to them. Grief isn’t something you ever fully get over. Which is irrelevant anyways because he refused the offer.