After coming on 11 months since I was dumped, and sufficiently recovered from the Sol debacle, I think I might be ready to start looking again.
I’m enjoying single life and single money, but I think it might be better to have someone to do things with, to grow alongside, and to hold.
I’m honestly a little scared of how much I miss the physical parts of being in a relationship. Tho I am in my twenties. So it tracks…
To all two people out here who are still cheering for me and Sol. Thank you. I appreciate your desire for that to end happily, but I think it already did. I’ve rebuilt my life after getting it turned upside down. I grew a lot as a person, and I have a greater understanding of self sacrifice.
I still feel like crying about it sometimes, but only if I tell the story again.
I don’t have any particular person in mind to pursue, but I’m resolved not to choose someone for the sake of having someone.
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[quote]I’m enjoying single life and single money, but I think it might be better to have someone to do things with, to grow alongside, and to hold. I’m honestly a little scared of how much I miss the physical parts of being in a relationship. Tho I am in my twenties. So it tracks… .....but I’m resolved not to choose someone for the sake of having someone.[/quote] I understand what you're saying, but I'll just throw this out there... The physical parts of a relationship are the motivator, it can be a hollow, bottomless hole that is never filled. So it's good that you acknowledge that now.