Count me in on that, full time job, 2 kids etc... That's pretty much what I do, play Friday nights crucible on PC with my last remaining RL friend that still plays this game. I'll play a couple extra nights during Iron Banner as well. I don't really do anything PvE related though. Stopped doing all the boring af quests a long time ago. Although today I actually had my first full fire team in well over a year, played with my kids on our Xbox's. I'll admit I had a good time, it was great hearing the excitement in their voices. All we did was public events and adventures (as well as a couple rounds of hudless hide and seek at the farm), & they loved every minute of it because they've been watching me play for years.

Well I suppose if you play it like that, yeah, since most of the grind comes from just grinding tons of pve. Of course I’d assume that most people don’t play like you do.