Do you use the LFG app or are you using the Destiny Sherpa subreddit?
Because honestly the Destiny Sherpa subreddit is 100% better than the LFG app because people are willing to teach others how to raid and aren't strict about loadouts. Every time I have used the subreddit I have had nothing but fun times, and made a lot of friends through the Sherpa subreddit.
https://www.reddit.com/r/DestinySherpa/
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Hell I just use Xbox lfg works perfectly fine