Personally I think it is after getting to know a woman more who married when she was 16 and gave birth when she was 18.
Divorced at 20 and only enrolled in Uni / got employed part time at the age of 24.
She realies heavily on support from her family and told me personally her life's been a struggle, fair enough but I hate how she doesn't think it's partly her fault
(or maybe she knows it but she's too proud to admit it)
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I'm waiting till after i finish college to have a Cartis Jr. (I'd rather have a boy). I want to be a bit more financially steady before i bring a child into the world. It wouldn't be fair to the child to raise them in an environment where i can't support them well. It may be the best of my ability, but to me i want my kid to have more than my best. Just how i am.