So I technically just broke up with someone and I feel fine about it. We had a thing over the summer, hung out a lot, went on dates, had sex etc. but he was only here for a language learning course (from Italy, sexy sexy) and went back after a month, so we couldn't see each other after that. He intended to come back next year for university, so we said we'd not see other people yada yada yada and stay in contact over the year. It was gonna be a proper thing. The distance got to us though, we quickly lost touch and we didn't talk in a long while. And I didn't know what to do after a bit. I had always thought we would likely grow apart with the distance, but he was always really enthusiastic about the whole thing and he was now being a bit distant. Had he gone off me? And I didn't want to scare him if he was just not able to answer his phone all the time or whatever - I just really wanted to know what he was thinking. So I just laid out my thoughts to him in WhatsApp. He responded in kind, turns out he might not come back now anyway so we should just leave it and see what happens down the line, if anything. We were both on the same wavelength despite my fears and that was the end of that. Now I have a great memory I can look back on nostalgically, and it's not 'that guy who stopped talking to me like an asshole after we said we'd stay in contact'. Moral of the story kiddies: tell people what's on your mind. Sometimes you blow things out of proportion when you really shouldn't, especially when it comes to relationships. [insert discussion content here]