I'll get it, but that's because I'm willing to keep hopping from group to group in order to find chill people if my normal fireteam doesn't want to. Most of the time the chill groups will have lax rules on LFG. If you don't like LFG, try finding some chill clans. They're harder to find though, especially when some SAY they're chill and then become the worst possible thing after you join.