[b][i]"Just be yourself, people will like you and respect you if you just be yourself."[/i][/b] WRONG. It isn't just about being yourself because being just yourself doesn't qualify. You don't wear slacks and a t-shirt that says "Genuis at work" or that shirt with a printed on tie. It isn't about being comfortable to the point where you're arrogant. It's about being the best you can be. [b]It's about motivation:[/b] What keeps you motivated to achieve your goals and dreams. [b]It's about confidence:[/b] Feeling confident whether it's through excercise or eating healthy or waking up with a positive attitude. Not being afraid to express yourself. [b]It's about being virtuous:[/b] You need to be your own man or women completely independent. Not following or trying to be someone you're not as well as sucking up trying to be nice to get on someone's good side. [b]It's about presentation:[/b] - Get a hair cut. - Shave that neck-beard and that horrible moustache you're trying to grow. - Brush your teeth and take showers. - Clean your room. - Clean yourself. NOW [b]It's about intelligence & intuition:[/b] You don't have to be a rocket scientist. You don't have to have a degree. You don't have to know how to play chess. It's about using your head and not do stupid things that either costs your life or others around you. Making smart decisions not immature mistakes. "Street-smart" Why would anyone date you or acknowledge you if you can't even take care of yourself...