originally posted in:The TopHat Society
[b][u]Exceptions:[/u][/b]
- The male or female is already in a relationship.
- Long distance
- Influx of "friends"
No, Men and Women can never be [i]just[/i] friends.
Women are too emotionally dependant and rely on "friendship" which results in a bunch of thirsty boys fight over each other to date that one female.
Men are too easily influenced by females, they chase after one when they see one...
Move on to the next one when the chase is not worthy enough to another female who is "better".
Original post:
https://www.bungie.net/en/Forum/Post/201886939/0/0
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Edited by gethyn007: 9/2/2016 3:13:34 PMIn my experience, men and women can hardly ever just be friends. Not saying it can't happen or that there aren't exceptions. Under normal circumstances and on some level, however, some sort of feelings, attraction, or situation will almost always occur which isn't within the boundaries of 'just' friends. Most of the time, if a guy is close or wants to be close to a girl, he's either lonely, horny, wants to do it, or he at least 'would' do it if the situation presents itself. If he says it isn't true, then he either hasn't come to the realization, has never been alone with her, or he's lying about it. By the way, this isn't to say that it's only us guys who are to blame, because it takes two to tango, but we are guys, after all. I'll admit it, I've just about never spent time alone with a girl that I was friends with and one that was at least attractive, and not had something happen. Sometimes it was awkward, and we just laughed and shrugged it off but remained friends. But usually, it developed into a full blown relationship, dating, or a friends with benefits sorta thing.
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Yeah I am with loads of other girls, not to day I won't smash them if they were into it but overall we're all buds, ai could give a care less about them in that type of way but overall I have numerous girl relationships. Whether they like me or not is meh because I'm horrible with picking up signs lol!
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Be me. Am best friends with grill Grill dates another guy Am chill with other guy Become friends with other guy Friend triangle
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Pretty much all the people I consider close friends are goyles. Guys these days are half the time assholes. And not the comedic/entertaining kind
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Clearly you've never had any former experience with human beings
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PSA: Don't even bother trying to debate this troll, guys.
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Why the font choice?
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Currently I am just friends with the girl I love.
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Here we go again....
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I don't think it could work as best friends, but I'm no expert on the subject. I don't know any girls other than my girlfriend.
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Yes. One of my best friends is female and we've been friends for nearly five years. We are both heterosexual and have had no romantic nor sexual tension.
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Again you are posting these type of threads because you are trying to become relevant again....
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One of them would have to be gay. If not, then the two would just become attracted to each other.
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If a straight man and a straight woman can't be true friends, I'd imagine a gay man and a straight woman could.
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Everything has to be put into categories for you, doesn't it?
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Troll, stop putting everyone into categories
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Yeah haven't you seen Harry Potter? Harmony is best friends with Harry and Ron.
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This is such a rhetorical question.
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No. I don't really think a single guy and a single girl can just be friends... I think at some point one side of the relationship will develop sexual or emotional feelings. Now I mean friends, not someone you just talk to when you see each other, not just a co-worker, etc. I feel like the only real possibilities for exceptions are: 1. At least one friend is in a happy relationship with someone else. 2. Childhood friends
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Solaris, you have a serious hatred of the term 'friends.'
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Solaris, fight me.
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Yes men and women can be just friends, and some can be horny idiots with obvious insecurities trying to bang everyone. Do you seriously want to pound every vag you come in contact with? What if your friend is obese (assuming you dont like that)?
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All people can be [i]just[/i] friends.
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Yes, as long as she lets me have sex with her.
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I won't settle for just being friends with DeeJ.
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I've been friends with a guy for 5+ years and we've never had any relationship. He's like a brother to me.