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Edited by Ogma: Destroyer of Worlds:
8/10/2016 11:34:23 PM
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Found a cute nerdy girl that I'm dating but....
....she has two kids and is a busy person. I have no desire to have children. Never have. She knows this. She isn't a kid person either, admittedly. She's honest, and weird. The good weird. Which I like. She wants me to teach her to play video games. She's also self admittedly kind of a freak, which I will likely find out soon. Not sure how far I want it to go though in case I can't get past the kids thing. We're both in our early thirties, neither one of us really want random sex with strangers. We connect very well, minus the kids thing.
What do?
Edit: We had the conversation and decided to end it. It really sucks because we connected so well otherwise. I'm really bummed right now.
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11 RepliesShe sounds like a terrible parent for not wanting kids but having them.
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1 ReplyJust keep moving. You could likely find another nerdy girl [without priorities and 5-10 years younger] at PetSmart or GameStop.
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7 RepliesSingle parents have enough to deal with without having their heart broken. If you can't get passed the kids, don't sleep with her and end the relationship tonight.
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lol if you don't care about the kids then -blam!- off.
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I've never been a fan of a woman with baggage. 1 kid is permissable, but 2 is a lot! You know the father of those kids will always be in the picture. The problem with that is women are usually vulnerable to rekindlement. You'll be kicking yourself when she says "something happened" that she needs to tell you. That will be the time she says shes going back to the father of her children because its the right thing to do. Im not saying this out of my own experience but from 5 friends who went through that. [spoiler]Ive got 2 kids and its a ton of work and sacrifice!!!!![/spoiler] [spoiler]start with a clean spree. [/spoiler]
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2 RepliesI'd pass if I were you. If the kids aren't mine I won't take care of them.
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Dont be a douche and take in kids if you aren't going to be like a dedicated father figure to thm. Be friends but don't do stupid shit. If you care enough you'd take her with all her luggage. And what a dedicated mother she is if she didn't really want kids to begin with lol, says a lot about that kind of a mother.
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It's obvious isnt it? Kill the kids.
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2 RepliesRun. If you aren't ready and don't want to deal with kids don't do it. You'll regret it and break both your hearts.
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2 Replieskinda sounding desperate in a way to date a woman with kids , i woudlnt do it.
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Well.... Don't date her .__.
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2 Replies-blam!- and go
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8 RepliesPost pics?????
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Don't date her then. You isn't want kids? Then don't date her. Simple as that.
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3 RepliesJust remember, you will always be second to her kids.
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Wear a dome. Should be fine. Some single moms just want someone to unclog the piping down below
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1 ReplyBe completely honest, tell her you like her but you're not a person who plans on kids. You might warm to the kids
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2 RepliesIt depends on how old the kids are, imo. But it ultimately shouldn't matter if you like her enough.
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Yell "Thug life!!" And empty the load...
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1 ReplyShoot it in, brotha. Nothing like 18 years of Child Support.
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Don't believe her if she says she's on the pill.
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Just give her a shot and see if it works out, no reason not to.
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3 RepliesSell them to African slave traders and tell her you lost them in your local Wal-Mart. Crisis averted.
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5 RepliesPut the kids up for adoption.
