Now that you have vented, I will speak frankly. Nothing you say or do will change this sort of behavior. I suggest you either 1) get used to it and deal with it, or 2) get used to it and come up with some snarkly little comebacks, etc. of your own to put the kids in their place. I'd suggest #2 but you don't really seem the type given how sensitive you are on this subject. If it hurt your feelies, nut up. Nothing is going to change on this front. Welcome to online gaming, leave your feelings, triggers (-blam!-ing hate that word...triggers me real good) at the door.