I have heard some immature d-bags treat females in Destiny the way you described, kinda saddens me, no values. I suggest joining a clan of like minded gamers, I joined MAD XBOX (Moms And Dads), they're not all "Moms & Dads" but they respect that people have family and life to deal with. I play with many couples but we're in a clan and know each other so it's all good, no disrespect.