I understand what you mean. My wife and I love playing Destiny, but when we go raiding with either randoms or a friend who's bringing randoms, she gets completely ignored when it comes to direction. Yes, she's a woman, and she knows her shit, too. She'll speak up about a strategy in raiding or something to be aware of and it'll often get ignored. The moment I speak up, everyone pipes the -blam!- down and listens, ESPECIALLY if its in her defense. I'm not getting into the whole sexism debate with my comment. That being said, take women -blam!-ing seriously, people. There are a handful of men and women that are morons, sure, but they are few and far inbetween, and mostly underage.