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4/5/2016 1:51:36 PM
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Don't date Girls online, Especially Gamer Girls
Well the whole trusting people online is a no brainer but guys fall victim to it many times.
[u]"Especially Gamer Girls"[/u] what I meant by that is, if you met her randomly through a game what is stopping any other guy from meeting her as well?
When it comes to Gamer Girls it is all about inspection, you need to know first whether or not if she is indeed a she:
> Obviously her username is a red flag it could also be bait, so you look at her friends & followers list if it is 50-100 and higher of friends & followers, it is a very high percentage she is in fact a she.
If it is lower then you get a little suspicious.
> For some reason girls have these insecurities which is why they tend to have a lot of [u]"Guy friends"[/u], but can you blame them? The Internet is not a safe place and it is hard to develop trust.
> But you message her and hope to develop attraction.
Notice the [u]signs[/u] as you talk to her in the following weeks:
- The duration of how long it takes for her to reply.
- Constantly in a chat with her other guy friends.
- That one guy that always followers her around like a loyal dog.
- Notice the increase of followers & friends.
- Notice she has her mind set on other things while you're waiting for her reply.
- Her use of the word "Friends".
- Her number one excuse "Busy".
These are signs that she is not attracted to you and only see you as a "[u]friend"[/u] the dreaded hurtful words for any guy, they just see you as a [u]"friend"[/u] nothing more nothing less.
[b]Time to move on.
You deserve to be someone's #1
Not someone's #151[/b]
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It's possible,but don't fall for a girl unless you play with her regularly.I'm talking like nearly every day for months regularly. If a connection is going to happen,it'll happen and you'll know about it.You can't be actively looking for girls on games just to try and date them,it doesn't work that way.One day a guy may become part of a regular group that games frequently and he could wind up with a connection with a girl in that group. Like,you become friends with a girl and talk heaps and if it's meant to go further it'll just progress that way,sorta like some cases in real life but online.I mean talking heaps over like a voice chat or something,none of that text nonsense.It's easier to know if you have her full attention and you can tell if she actually sounds interested in what you're saying. I kinda forget what my point was now but I guess what I'm saying is it can happen.The odds aren't likely but it's possible under the right circumstances.
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Story time! I'm about to put her on blast (were not friends no more). Ok so NEVER get into a relationship with a gamer girl you met over XBL or PSN. Her name (A***) met some dude named (T*****) and they were always in my party chat flirting it up and getting hella nasty. It was incredibly awkward. Both are super unattractive anyways so I guess that's why they were soul mates. Or so I thought. So this (T*****) guy starts being friends with me and some other chick and (A***) didn't like that. She thought I was gonna steal her man. I ain't into 6'5" chubs though. Then she thought my black friend was gonna steal him away cause she steals everything anyway. Before long this chick went NUTS. I mean she started cussing me out calling me a man stealer and the black chick too. So I got tired of her shit so I told the guy how obsessed she's become. She had pictures saved as her background of him. She always talked about him. I told some nasty stories of how she slept with every band kid at school. This dude was creeped out by the end of the convo. Keep in mine this dude lives in New Orleans and she lives Maricopa. Far as hell if you ask me. All in all, don't date gamer chicks you just met. They're low-key crazy. JUST DONT.
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They're probably Canadian anyways not worth it
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No wonder there are so many socially inept people these days.
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Tread carefully for sure, but I wouldn't say [i]don't[/i] do it.
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1 Reply[quote]Well the whole trusting people online is a no brainer but guys fall victim to it many times. [u]"Especially Gamer Girls"[/u] what I meant by that is, if you met her randomly through a game what is stopping any other guy from meeting her as well? When it comes to Gamer Girls it is all about inspection, you need to know first whether or not if she is indeed a she: > Obviously her username is a red flag it could also be bait, so you look at her friends & followers list if it is 50-100 and higher of friends & followers, it is a very high percentage she is in fact a she. If it is lower then you get a little suspicious. > For some reason girls have these insecurities which is why they tend to have a lot of [u]"Guy friends"[/u], but can you blame them? The Internet is not a safe place and it is hard to develop trust. > But you message her and hope to develop attraction. Notice the [u]signs[/u] as you talk to her in the following weeks: - The duration of how long it takes for her to reply. - Constantly in a chat with her other guy friends. - That one guy that always followers her around like a loyal dog. - Notice the increase of followers & friends. - Notice she has her mind set on other things while you're waiting for her reply. - Her use of the word "Friends". - Her number one excuse "Busy". These are signs that she is not attracted to you and only see you as a "[u]friend"[/u] the dreaded hurtful words for any guy, they just see you as a [u]"friend"[/u] nothing more nothing less. [b]Time to move on. You deserve to be someone's #1 Not someone's #151[/b][/quote] Literally none of this is a reason to not date a gamer girl. It's just a list of signs that somebody either isn't interested, or is leading you on. None of that has to do with being a gamer. Oh and, for the record, there is nothing wrong with any woman merely meeting new male friends.
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1 ReplyThis will surely help me in my quest to find the perfect online girlfriend.
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It's probably better to just not get attracted to people online, I kind of learned my lesson on this one lol.
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This post is weird, and you're weird.
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Have a friend that -blam!-ing destroys on Black ops 2, the stories she tells me are fcuking hilarious.
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Edited by Sjur Eido: 4/6/2016 2:15:29 AMI met this chick on Gears of War. She shot me with a gnasher and continued to be the best damn player in the match. Some of them are pure blooded gamers.
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4 RepliesWoah. I mean I guess? No..? I met my bf on World of Warcraft almost 10 years ago when we were in middle school. He ganked the -blam!- out of me [spoiler]and now im having his babies[/spoiler] The most common way to met a girl gamer is online... On a game. Just sounds like a complaint on being friend zoned. And the notes are very unique to girl gamers. Maybe just don't date online lmao. [spoiler]or at all[/spoiler] There are a few great genuine girl gamers, just gotta know when you're talking to one.
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Date guys (Lenni)
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Hey! I'm a girl and I only have like 17 friend on Xbox.... *cries* Jk
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Assume- make an Ass out of U and Me
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You people don't need any of this advice. Thanks to the virtual world, finding that perfect someone has never been easier. A waifu is for laifu.
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This post is full of assumptions.
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There are no girls on the Internet. It's all guys trying to catfish you. There are some fat girls thrown in the mix but that doesn't count. GIRL = Guy In Real Life
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1 ReplyEdited by Onxide: 4/5/2016 2:03:33 PMDam u str8 bby?
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3 RepliesGuy In Real Life You argument is invalid
