I'm seeing a lot of severely misinformed people around here who think that because same-sex marriage was finally legalized, that suddenly all of the struggles of the LGBT community are suddenly over. You could not be more wrong.
The five major points from the article:
1. [b]Discrimination[/b]. It is still legal in the majority of states to discriminate against gay and trans people with regards to employment. Obama made gay and trans discrimination illegal for government jobs, but most jobs are not government jobs. So yeah, we can get married now... and then we can go to work the next day and get fired by our homophobic boss.
2. [b]Adoption[/b]. Many politicians (Republicans) and a lot of the public are still against gay adoption, and while it is now legal in almost every state, Republican politicians nation-wide are actively trying to repeal those rights.
3. [b]Homelessness[/b]. Due to a combination of job discrimination and unaccepting, unloving parents, 40% of homeless youth are gay and trans. This affects trans youth even harder, and homeless trans youth are disproportionately sexually assaulted at homeless shelters.
4. [b]Trans rights[/b]. Discrimination, bullying, and hate crimes are even [i]worse[/i] against trans people than they are against gay people. 41% of trans people have attempted suicide, generally due to lack of acceptance, inability to afford (and lack of insurance coverage for) trans-related medical care, or due to homelessness caused by inability to find work because of discrimination. In addition, Republicans all over the country are continuing to attempt to roll out "bathroom bills" that would force trans people into unsafe spaces.
5. [b]HIV and AIDS[/b]. This doesn't so much have to do with equality, but it's still an important issue. HIV and AIDS disproportionally affect gay men, and this has been a major issue for the community since the 80s.
Some points of my own I'd like to add:
6. [b]Panic defense[/b]. In 49 out of 50 states (California being the exception) it is still totally legal to use what's called the "gay/trans panic defense." This where the person who has committed a hate crime against a gay or trans person will claim "self defense" and "temporary insanity" in response to finding out their victim was gay or trans. This is 100% real and is used successfully to this day.
7. [b]Sex education[/b]. Sex ed is already lacking, even for straight people. "Abstinence only" sex ed has been proven to be completely ineffective, and yet it is still widely taught across the country. But even more unfortunate is that sex ed in schools is entirely heteronormative. If you're gay or trans and need to learn about the birds and the bees, heterosexual sex ed isn't going to be very useful. In order for all people, regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation, to be able to enjoy [i]safe[/i] sex, sex ed must account for everyone, not just straight people.
8. [b]Representation[/b]. Gay and trans people are egregiously underrepresented in TV and film, media outlets that almost everyone goes to for entertainment and escapism. If you are straight and cisgender, you will find loads of relatable characters on screen. If your'e gay or trans, it's very hard to find relatable characters. Furthermore, trans people especially are commonly the butt of disgustingly offensive jokes in movies, usually as a way of poking fun at a straight man's sexuality. This lack of representation and horrible caricaturization teaches gay and trans youth that they are less important than others because they don't see people like themselves on TV.
9. [b]Education and acceptance[/b]. Even if all of the things previously mentioned are fixed, that doesn't mean that everyone suddenly accepts us. Making workplace discrimination illegal doesn't stop prejudiced employers from coming up with other excuses to not hire us. Making punishments harsher for hate crime perpetrators doesn't stop hate crimes from happening. Equality in the eyes of the law doesn't end oppression. The only way for the LGBT community to truly have equal standing in society, to not be deemed "lesser," is by educating people. We have to teach people that we're born this way, we don't choose it. We have to teach people that gender and sexuality are fluid, and that falling anywhere on the spectrum is valid. We have to teach people that everyone deserves basic human decency and respect,. We have to teach people to celebrate our differences rather than using them to divide us. We have to undo this archaic, traditionalist heteronormativity and cisnormativity in our culture that perpetuate hatred and oppression.
My gay and trans brothers, sisters, and non-binary siblings are still dying for our cause. Every day I see a new article about a gay or trans person being attacked or killed, or committing suicide because their parents refuse to love them.
[b][i]This fight is far from over.[/i][/b]
Now please stop trying to convince me that my community has achieved equality. Your ignorance will be ignored.
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The comments on this post are just... Sad
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does this trigger you?
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No wonder you guys are being treated like shit. You gave all the reasons why.
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Didn't bother reading, just noticed you're back who's dick or muff you have to munch to get unbanned early?
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Of course. The fight for rights is never over brothers.
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I'm sorry, but imo teaching gay/trans sex education in schools is a waste, they just aren't a large enough portion of the population to justify it. I could go to the 20 high schools nearest me right now and guarantee that at most they've had a dozen or so gays and most likely 0 trans students. Plus, what would be so different about gay/trans sex ed anyway? Sex ed doesn't really teach you how to have sex, it teaches you about the reproductive organs, safe sex (condoms), and STIs, all of which apply equally to gays and trans, so I don't really see the need to separate them. Maybe I'm missing something? Idk.
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Edited by Spartan 22O: 3/18/2016 9:54:43 AMGood luck making any more imminent progress with a Republican in the White House
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I thought alts were ban worthy, no?
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The LGBT are down right depraving and disgusting it's destroying humanity
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What the hell makes you believe a cohort of video gamers cares?
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shut up
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Edited by Regret: 3/18/2016 6:39:24 AMmaybe gays should wear protection?? i dont see how gay people being too lazy to use protection is our problem
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Stop copying and pasting and come up with points that are your own, even the ones that say are your own,aren't.
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Cool Now if only the endangered, white straight male, got as much attention as this
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Edited by Pistol Magic: 3/18/2016 5:07:07 AMAnd soon I can be a polygamist too! Fun times are coming OP, Fun times. I stand with you in this endeavor. We can win our rights as lesbians and polygamist together
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You know I didn't read all of that I just glazed through it. It seems you are the biggest hypocrite iv come across on here, you segregate the whole lgbt community and almost discriminate them by listing stereotypical "traits". I have gay relatives and friends and AIDS isn't a problem for them and I think they would probably be offended by your thread. You are not trying to raise or support that community in fact it seems you're doing the opposite. I might properly read your post later and il give you my full opinion then.
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Are you saying that AIDS being much higher in gay men is somehow someone else's fault other than their own?
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Whilst I do agree with you, this really isn't the right place to post this...
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She's back! *scampers away
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Back with a vengeance I see
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Nobody cares. This isn't tumblr.
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A very large part of the issue is your community trying to impose its existence into everyone's lives. I certainly dont care about your group any more than racist or immigration groups, and I, and all other Americans, are entitled to our opinions so long as it doesnt violate other's rights. This means that i can dislike gays, trans, or even mexicans if i want to as long as i respect their rights as a legal citizen. The education department does not have the job of teaching kids what to believe. Societal views are determined from society, and that is essentially the news sites, forums like these, twitter, facebook, or other social media. Bringing gay activists into schools only wastes more of the time we are paying for through taxes. What NEEDS to happen in schools is a complete restructure, with a 1-10 grade system that spends 40 hours a week and one month learning a subject, then proceeding to the next in the same manner. We NEED to be more efficient with our education system, and trying to teach with the intent of "no child left behind" only stagnates the learning process for the majority of people. Educate better, quicker, and get these people into the economy as productive members of society. [spoiler]#rant mother -blam!-ers[/spoiler]
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so less than half of the population is trans, bi, or gay, and some how their "snowflake problems" are more important than the normal, greater population? You are trying to tell me that we should fight for the minority because they are more important than the majority simply because they are "special snowflakes" and they deserve better? Your high.
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Lets just listen to some gay music and chill ;)
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I don't see how AIDS and HIV are our fault.