So just to get a few things straight, im not mad at anyone, im not pointing fingers, im just straight up pissed. So I recently found out one of my friends is transgender. I will not say their name for personal security. Now, i do not have a problem with this. Im perfectly fine with it. I treat them the same way i would treat anyone. We had a little chat, and we agreed to open up to each other when we needed it. Why am i saying all this? Theres a point. Ill get to it in a sec. The second part, was at ski club. I had a bag with 10 or 15 dollars, and went down to the vending machines to get a drink. I get down there and there is this girl standing in front of the machine. I stand there for a second, and the girl asks me for one dollar. I look at her hand. Shes holding $1. I look at the machine. $2 per drink. I look at my bag of money. $12 (or so). So, i hand over the dollar. I don't see why not. She puts the cash in the machine, which proceeds to spit it back out. This goes on for about 2 more tries, and eventually the machine accepts it. She thanks me, and i tell her to "pass it on". When she asks what it means, i just say "do something nice for someone else without thinking about yourself." She approved and left. So then when im neutral, people act like assholes. Why does someone need to be nice to you for you to not be a dick? Ive had people treat me like a trashcan. "-DisclosedName-, can you throw this out for me?" I did it the first 28 times. Why? Because i did something for my friends. Who i care about. But when you people act like dickbags? I just feel like saying directly to their face, "Bitch hell no. Get off ur -blam!-ing lazy ass and do it your -blam!-ing self." Because I do it, and they completely forget that it happened. Why am i bringing this up? Because friendship is a kindness. It seems like you have to be nice to someone to have them be nice back to you or other people. Im not talking about anyone in general, but -blam!-ing be nice people! Obviously, im not you. I cant change that. But if dont treat you like an ass, and you act like im an old rag, you can bet your ass im going to be the biggest asshole i can. If you have a problem, fine. -blam!-ing deal with it. Its not my problem. There are those days, where i have a bad day, as we all do, but im talking about it for more than 3 days or so. So shut up and deal. TL;DR Don't be an asshole. People will hate you. [spoiler]i went on a little instagram rant.[/spoiler]