I appreciate all the trouble you went to editing your original post to...honestly I'm not sure what that accomplished. You keep saying I'm making all these assumptions, but it doesn't appear to me that you're examining your own. Where are we suggesting that people need our help to do anything? We're offering an option that we like, it's other folks' choice to take it. I'm not sure where gender roles came into the conversation, and I wasn't suggesting anything about bathrooms at all - sarcasm really is hard for you, isn't it? Your comment about bathrooms was immediately followed up by that being the only time you see people asking for respect. It was a funny (and obviously not intended connection), and I commented on it - stop obsessing? And feminzai rage? Does no other woman in your life ever call you out on the things you say, so you have no other frame of reference for labeling a random woman on the internet doing so? If we're talking about backtracking, let's talk about how your original comment was "Kek political correctness" and now you want to claim it was an obvious comment about redundancy. Not the strongest argument there, either. Maybe go back and edit that one too so it actually says something about redundancy? Just a thought.