Never intended to imply stupidity. While I started with a joke about irony, I would rather this be a conversation, not a series of insults. Yes, you can't judge a book by a cover, as that blog suggests. Doesn't matter who I am or who anyone else is, you won't know for yourself until we show our true colors. But surely you meet male players, and find ones mature enough to engage in conversation and play cooperatively with. I still find it a shame that those players, even if you were to get to know them, would still be excluded from an entire community with the same video game goals as that individual.