Well.. How can I put this. This is more relevant in real life but I see it in destiny alot aswel .. it's not that simple for me..skill or no skill. Not black and white. Ever heard of NPD? narcissistic personality disorder. Everyone has a bit of the traits of NPD,so i'm not diagnosing people here. Its a complex disorder Allright this may sound a bit vague already.. From what I see around me in life and ingame,people can't reflect anymore. They either hide the fact that they were incompetent, or are totally oblivious to it. There is nothing shameful in making a mistake or needing practice at something. The shameful thing is ignoring it. Owning up to it and make progress is natural. This seems to be forgotten nowadays. The people who won't admit their fault avoid confrontation, usually just shut down..leave a party and block communication. They will point fingers to distract you of noticing their incompetence. But the ones that don't even know are even worse. Somehow they had an idea in their head, and started to overestimate their capabilities. They will not take advice because they think they don't need it. they cannot reflect on how to improve and they will always be highly offended when confronted with their mistakes by others. I see this alot in Destiny aswel. Just trying to help out the team but when i give [b]constructive[/b]criticism on what went wrong/what can you do better, oh boy hell breaks loose. To not make this too long let me just say this: observe, always follow your instinct!!If you are polite about it, never hide the truth because you're afraid of hurting somebody. Not saying anything when you felt like you could contribute does more harm as we can see now with the current generations growing up. If people can't handle it then so it be. This was all just a quickly written random opinion of an introvert HSP (look it up) ,who has had experiences with these types of humans. Educate yourself. I didn't and learned the hard way.