I really do exactly know what you mean and i do have the same opinion about it especially since most of the boys (in the internet even worse) trying to distinguish themselves by telling rude things about the "female" target in front of their buddies, which just shows they dont have and never got taught any respect. And this group / clan is more likely to give them a chance to avoid those situations But what i was about to say is that you shouldnt exclude boys completly but maybe give some of them a chance (you should check them out before ofc) since e.g. in my opinion i do prefer playing with girls since i feel mostly the same way about those unrespectful situations while playing with most boys I hope you got my point :)