If I read your post correctly, it seems like you assume we don't play with folks who identify as male, even though Maleficent pointed out to you earlier that this isn't the case. A requirement for joining doesn't have anything to do with who members play with...The only time we ever ask that folks outside the clan not join is when we are holding clan-specific events; otherwise, who you play with really isn't any of our business, as long as they are respectful to other clanmates.