I guess maybe I am old school. I come from the school where 'teabagging' was basically the same as being able to say 'who's your daddy?' or some such. I have tasted the salty sack of defeat, and I have offered a salty sack for tasting, after a glorious win. We have to be politically correct in the real world. We have to be cautious of people's feelings in the real world. In the real world, we have to be nice. I game to get AWAY from the real world. Granted, if you suck, I am not going as far as sending you a message about it, but you will leave the match with my salt on your lips. Get over it. Get better, and you can decide if you want to put your sack up for offer. If you don't, good for me. If you do, good for you. With regard to cyber bullying on Destiny. I have yet to see this. I guess I don't know how that happens. Do you join a bad group in a raid, who abuse you and belittle you the whole way thru? Are you part of a clan who calls you names? If you are in a group that you don't like, leave. You have an ignore/block feature. Use it. You have a report function. Use it. I know Sony has the feature to report messages that are sent via their network. Use it. And as far as being judged in this game....you are judged by the score you carry and the armor you wear. That is going to happen. All I can tell you is make some friends. Learn how to 'teabag' with impunity. I 'teabag' after I earn a win. And if you are a good player who put up a fight...I also send a friends request.