The aim of this game is simple:
You tell me something about your gaming experience in destiny that has become a struggle for you (eg: can't get enough certain mats, can't get this weapon etc), and I bet that I can beat your struggle with one of my own. Trust me, I have many. I'll give you few of my own as an example:
I'm a day one player who's never reached the Max light level, I have four flipping raid completions, I'm very experienced in PvP yet I can't access ToO, I never have enough ascendants...
...And so on and so on...
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I'm confused by all of this. You are a 34 so you "reached max light level". You only have one character so it leads me to believe that you just aren't that into this game. You can LFG raid teams and Trials fireteams. Your lack of playing is laziness, not a "struggle".