'Cus why da' fuq not?! I'll start. The proper way to put your arm around a girl for the first time, is to do this. Tell her "You know, the distance from *here* to *here*" poke one of her shoulders, and the back of her neck in THAT EXACT ORDER. "is the same distance from *here* to *here.*" Poke the back of her neck, and then wrap your arm around her, reaching the opposite shoulder. Next step: Collect panties.