In life we all face many different changes and challenges, and in turn we all react and handle them differently; but what I want you to understand is not to let your fear influence how you handle those. Whether it be a pretty girl you want to ask out, or you're starting university soon, even moving or starting a new job, don't let the fear of failure stop you from going for it. As for the girl, I want you to really bear down here, this advice could save you a lot of grief; the worse she can do is say no. That's it, and you may feel upset afterwards, but in all honesty it'd be no skin off your knee. For those of you who have or will be starting college this year my advice to you; explore. Do things that would usually be outside your comfort range. (And when I say this I don't mean to ingest all sorts of drugs/alcohol: but to each their own). The fear of the unknown should instead be replaced with the excitement of the unwritten, you can now do anything you push yourself through. Along with the new job and moving, don't be afraid of what's to come; instead embrace it and make the best you can of it. As our good friend Shia says, "Just do it!". I know life isn't always easy with the challenges it hands us, but I want you all to know that if things are too much to handle that you can message me and I will do my best to help out in whichever manner I can.