Women can make derogatory comments too, but I understand how much more cutting in can be from a man. Neither is acceptable but that is unfortunately the problem with online gaming. I'm a grown man with two girls, and playing in voice channels is always a no go for me on games like destiny. Not because I'm easily offended by comments, but because I can't be bothered to listen to nonsense. I'm not against the Dames, and I understand why it was set up, i love the fact that nowadays more women are interested in gaming than ever before. Back in my day it was 90% men who played. I just don't agree with the open sexism towards men that is flaunted by the clan when it would be accepted for Men only! The clan admin could remove anyone who broke the clan rules so that way, the female only is dropped and Men and Women who are insulting other members can be removed and blocked. That way, men and women with similar interests can start to enjoy gaming together and removing the stigma that goes with girl gamers and closing the divide that exists. Everyone wins. And I appreciate your sensible counter, rather than arguing that I was wrong in my opinion, so thank you.