I have a lot of female friends on Xbox and they don't advertise their gender. Their names may be feminine but that's it. They don't exclude playing with only females. Yea they get hate mail for being a female but I get hate mail for being gay and do you see me making an all lgbtq clan? People need to stop being so sensitive when it comes to online hate. They don't know you so why get angry when they say mean things? The dames should also stick to their safe haven idea. I've heard many stories of girls who "don't fit in" getting trash talked about them behind their backs. How is it a safe haven if you are going to trash your own members? You should be helpful to all your members or your safe haven isn't safe at all. That's my take on this.