Dear Dames of Destiny,
While I do not normally watch the Destiny Bungie Bounty streams, it recently came to my attention through the My name is Byf video (which I have included in this post for anyone who happens to be curious), that your part in the Bungie Bounty was met with almost constant sexist and discriminatory remarks. Normally, I don't make threads of my own, only reserving that sort of thing for what I consider important, and this is the third thread I've made on the Bungie forums, period.
As such, I feel a few things need to be said.
First, to the Destiny Community:
It comes as no surprise to me that there is still a hateful attitude towards women in gaming, but what [i]did[/i] come as a shock was the fact that people were willing to show that hate and discrimination so publicly, without any apparent shame for it. I realize that the Internet and Online Gaming, in and of themselves, promote anonymity, and in turn that gives people the power to say whatever it is they wish. That power is often coupled with complete irresponsibility and total unaccountability.
That is no excuse, and is unacceptable.
The fact that I have to type this in the first place disappoints and sickens me, but I suppose it has to be reiterated: In a video game, the gender of the player [u]does not matter.[/u] It should [u]never[/u] matter. Neither should race or place of birth. Discrimination as a whole is wrong, and should never be promoted. As such, anyone who sees what happened to the Dames of Destiny, and approves? You are not a part of [i]my[/i] Destiny Community, and I want nothing to do with you. If I seem like I'm parroting Byf's video and the points he happens to be making, it's simply because the point deserves to be hammered home.
Second, to the Dames of Destiny themselves:
For those of you who read this, and I sincerely hope you do, I want to say on behalf of my part of the Destiny Community that I am truly sorry that you had to see, experience, and have to endure that kind of utter bullshit. And I am sorry that over the past decade, it hasn't seemed to have gotten noticeably better.
I hope that from this point forward, you have to deal with less and less discriminating assholes while you play online, regardless of whether or not it happens to be Destiny. And I hope that, despite everything that happened during the Bungie Bounty stream, it does not deter you from staying strong as a part of this community.
[i]Sincerely,
Texas Joker 52, esq.[/i]
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I don't agree with being an a-hole to someone based on who they are, if they went crazy and said a bunch of crap just based on them being girls that is wrong. However playing a competitive game ,whether it is a video game or a sport, adrenaline flows and you get pumped and a lot of people talk trash and stuff. I am always joking and ribbing people I play with. Should I not make a stupid wiener joke or something just because there are girls in the game? Should I not give them a little trash talk or just screw with them a bit because they are girls? Try to say something to maybe get in their head and make them mess up because they are girls? Everyone wants to be treated equally, yet that sounds like special treatment to me. You shouldn't have to restrict yourself or go out of your way just because there is someone different involved, whether it's gender or ethnicity. I would never be hateful or mean to anyone based on gender or ethnicity, nor will I give them special treatment by censoring myself to protect them. Anyone who plays is fair game for some trash talk and jokes regardless. People are people and unless you give me reason to be an a-hole, I won't be.