Dear Dames of Destiny,
While I do not normally watch the Destiny Bungie Bounty streams, it recently came to my attention through the My name is Byf video (which I have included in this post for anyone who happens to be curious), that your part in the Bungie Bounty was met with almost constant sexist and discriminatory remarks. Normally, I don't make threads of my own, only reserving that sort of thing for what I consider important, and this is the third thread I've made on the Bungie forums, period.
As such, I feel a few things need to be said.
First, to the Destiny Community:
It comes as no surprise to me that there is still a hateful attitude towards women in gaming, but what [i]did[/i] come as a shock was the fact that people were willing to show that hate and discrimination so publicly, without any apparent shame for it. I realize that the Internet and Online Gaming, in and of themselves, promote anonymity, and in turn that gives people the power to say whatever it is they wish. That power is often coupled with complete irresponsibility and total unaccountability.
That is no excuse, and is unacceptable.
The fact that I have to type this in the first place disappoints and sickens me, but I suppose it has to be reiterated: In a video game, the gender of the player [u]does not matter.[/u] It should [u]never[/u] matter. Neither should race or place of birth. Discrimination as a whole is wrong, and should never be promoted. As such, anyone who sees what happened to the Dames of Destiny, and approves? You are not a part of [i]my[/i] Destiny Community, and I want nothing to do with you. If I seem like I'm parroting Byf's video and the points he happens to be making, it's simply because the point deserves to be hammered home.
Second, to the Dames of Destiny themselves:
For those of you who read this, and I sincerely hope you do, I want to say on behalf of my part of the Destiny Community that I am truly sorry that you had to see, experience, and have to endure that kind of utter bullshit. And I am sorry that over the past decade, it hasn't seemed to have gotten noticeably better.
I hope that from this point forward, you have to deal with less and less discriminating assholes while you play online, regardless of whether or not it happens to be Destiny. And I hope that, despite everything that happened during the Bungie Bounty stream, it does not deter you from staying strong as a part of this community.
[i]Sincerely,
Texas Joker 52, esq.[/i]
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Please move this to #offtopic
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Not a fan of wish, but this guy discredits everything he's trying to say when he lied about what wish said.
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Thank you. It's sad that people so this. It's why feminists exist because we just want to be treated equally. It's why all rights groups exist, to get people treated equally. A majority of the gaming community is absolutely horrendous when it comes to respecting others. I don't know why, I am going to place the blame on the parents, but also like you said the anonimity is a huge factor. Thanks for being decent human being. Those are rare these days.
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#whitenightsarepathetic
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Edited by LilBlkCloud: 7/31/2015 2:39:53 PMThe console gaming community is toxic and full of ignorant people, misogynists, and racists. My computer broke, so that's why I'm here, but my experience in the past two months makes me want to knuckle down and build a new PC as soon as possible. The PC gaming community isn't nearly as bad. Anyway, Bungie wanted to be with these scumbags. They left PC gaming behind to focus exclusively on consoles. If you ask me, they're right at home with the toxic community, as is obvious by the behavior of their design lead. It makes me sad how pathetic the console community is. It won't be long though before some kind of legislation is put in place to stop this kind of thing from happening. People will soon face consequences.
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Breast fed by mama till he was 10. 👆🏻
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I'm waiting for someone to start a White Knight clan with all this bullshit. Let it go already.
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Well, members of the Dames that I've played with are actually among the biggest pieces of shit I've ever met playing this game. Not all of them, don't get me wrong. So, yes, to those "lovely" people, you can indeed suck my balls.
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Why didn't you just send players who were wronged this "sincere letter" instead of posting it here where they might even see it?
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Found another white knight virgin
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Can someone fill me in on what happened? I didn't watch their stream
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Who cares. Dames of Destiny is probably a bunch of feminist and feminist are annoying as hell
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They're not gonna blow you dude
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All those guys who said all that shit in the comments are the same guys who are afraid to talk to girls or when a girl turns them down calls them a lesbian . Scared little pricks in your parents basement You know who you are
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Did a women get beat or something this seem like an over reaction to a suck my balls comment.
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I totally agree with ur point of view.
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Someone wants to get laid...
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I dont see why ure apologizeing. Im against sexual harrasmant but these girls dont need to be treat like a special snowflake
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Bump again for justice
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Why should you have to apologize on behalf of anyone if you were not complicit to anything that happened. You can be sorry for what happened but not on the idiots behalf. They should have the decency to do it themselves...
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dat white knight tho
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Well said my friend
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#whitenightroutine This is getting old..
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Lots of people are just assholes regardless of gender, race, etc. Fact of life and it's never going to change, period. Do I condone the behavior? Absolutely not. Am I going to get offended and try to change human nature over it? Nope. Do I have an ego large enough to come onto the forums and think I'm important enough to represent the entire community? Nope. If anything, Bungie should have said something about the type of behavior displayed in the stream to be completely unacceptable and that they may have to rethink developer/community events if that how people are going to act.
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*cough* That was really white knighty *cough*
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