Dear Dames of Destiny,
While I do not normally watch the Destiny Bungie Bounty streams, it recently came to my attention through the My name is Byf video (which I have included in this post for anyone who happens to be curious), that your part in the Bungie Bounty was met with almost constant sexist and discriminatory remarks. Normally, I don't make threads of my own, only reserving that sort of thing for what I consider important, and this is the third thread I've made on the Bungie forums, period.
As such, I feel a few things need to be said.
First, to the Destiny Community:
It comes as no surprise to me that there is still a hateful attitude towards women in gaming, but what [i]did[/i] come as a shock was the fact that people were willing to show that hate and discrimination so publicly, without any apparent shame for it. I realize that the Internet and Online Gaming, in and of themselves, promote anonymity, and in turn that gives people the power to say whatever it is they wish. That power is often coupled with complete irresponsibility and total unaccountability.
That is no excuse, and is unacceptable.
The fact that I have to type this in the first place disappoints and sickens me, but I suppose it has to be reiterated: In a video game, the gender of the player [u]does not matter.[/u] It should [u]never[/u] matter. Neither should race or place of birth. Discrimination as a whole is wrong, and should never be promoted. As such, anyone who sees what happened to the Dames of Destiny, and approves? You are not a part of [i]my[/i] Destiny Community, and I want nothing to do with you. If I seem like I'm parroting Byf's video and the points he happens to be making, it's simply because the point deserves to be hammered home.
Second, to the Dames of Destiny themselves:
For those of you who read this, and I sincerely hope you do, I want to say on behalf of my part of the Destiny Community that I am truly sorry that you had to see, experience, and have to endure that kind of utter bullshit. And I am sorry that over the past decade, it hasn't seemed to have gotten noticeably better.
I hope that from this point forward, you have to deal with less and less discriminating assholes while you play online, regardless of whether or not it happens to be Destiny. And I hope that, despite everything that happened during the Bungie Bounty stream, it does not deter you from staying strong as a part of this community.
[i]Sincerely,
Texas Joker 52, esq.[/i]
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Haha white knight
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Dang you wrote a book bro
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The forums today.
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Why do things that CLEARLY originated from the 4chinz always get blown out of proportion and people still fall for these trolls? Granted, they can overwhelm and make it feel like it's more than it really is, but I mean, why doesn't someone at say Bungie monitor that site during these events. Most of it spills off their chat onto the board. Thus, no longer a surprise attack. Proaction over reaction. Plus, I'm sure this is somehow gamergate related as well.
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Ooooorrrrrr you're so sweet......... ( throw up every were) wipe chin
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Are we still giving trolls exactly what they want (attention)?
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On q Mr fedoro
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Damn that kids a thug , he gave no f u c k s , yeah -blam!- deej too -blam!-
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This is why i don't mic chat and prefer guys to think i'm a guy a to avoid harassment.
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Everybody gets shit on gaming. Whether you are a girl or not makes no difference unless you bring it into the fight. That is why women do not call themselves gamers on the forums, they are girl gamers. If they make themselves separate, than they will be treated as such.
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Bump!
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I agree the things said aren't okay. BUT if anyone has ever been in a twitch chat room they know that this isnt out of the ordinary. I used to watch streams on my second monitor when i played pc games, and every once in a while i'd read chat between games. Twitch chat is where every troll, every weirdo, and every self entitled uneducated asshole comes out and says outrageously inappropriate stuff. Not saying any of this is okay or i agree with them, but it's going to happen. Every streamer or youtuber deals with their share of bullshit. Granted it'll be worse for a female since quite a large majority of these idiots are males. Moral of the story: if you wanna be famous on the internet be prepared for an onslaught of insults. Tldr: twitch chat makes these forums look like bible study. So dont take it so seriously.
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[quote]In a video game, the gender of the player [u]does not matter.[/u] It should [u]never[/u] matter[/quote] Hahahah. I mean I agree. I just think you aren't being honest with yourself. Is that really want you think? I'm asking because you are suporting a clan of which one of the requirements to enter is to be of a specific gender. [spoiler]Double Standards :/[/spoiler]
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Clan that only allows women into it.... Sexism against males itself? Glad we only care about sexism going one way now.
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Good for you. It had to be said
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Wow this is why the #Density community is trash, this and the, git gud scrub, I earned my (random exotic nobody gives a shit about)here, must have 9000 grimoire score, must have gone flawless, must have gally, must have 3.5 gpa, must have annual income of 9001$
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People talking shit happens. As an adult male I still go out in public and get made fun of by random people I do not know for a physical deformity I was born with, Get over yourselves. Get some thicker skin.
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This community is always going to have people like this but you just have to ignore they're asses and play on.
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This gaming community takes itself way too seriously
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This is definitely gonna get you laid by Frank, the Dames secretary. Feel better Dames!
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Muted
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holy wall of text
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Get over yourself. Signed, Grand_Moff, Esq.
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I agree, I played with a female gamer today, and I thought it was cool to see different sexes having the same hobby which seams completely masculine
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As a dad I really do worry for my girls in this day and age
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TL;DR always tl;dr. What a -blam!-tard white knight.