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7/30/2015 8:19:50 PM
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An Open Letter to the Dames of Destiny: I Am Sorry.

Dear Dames of Destiny, While I do not normally watch the Destiny Bungie Bounty streams, it recently came to my attention through the My name is Byf video (which I have included in this post for anyone who happens to be curious), that your part in the Bungie Bounty was met with almost constant sexist and discriminatory remarks. Normally, I don't make threads of my own, only reserving that sort of thing for what I consider important, and this is the third thread I've made on the Bungie forums, period. As such, I feel a few things need to be said. First, to the Destiny Community: It comes as no surprise to me that there is still a hateful attitude towards women in gaming, but what [i]did[/i] come as a shock was the fact that people were willing to show that hate and discrimination so publicly, without any apparent shame for it. I realize that the Internet and Online Gaming, in and of themselves, promote anonymity, and in turn that gives people the power to say whatever it is they wish. That power is often coupled with complete irresponsibility and total unaccountability. That is no excuse, and is unacceptable. The fact that I have to type this in the first place disappoints and sickens me, but I suppose it has to be reiterated: In a video game, the gender of the player [u]does not matter.[/u] It should [u]never[/u] matter. Neither should race or place of birth. Discrimination as a whole is wrong, and should never be promoted. As such, anyone who sees what happened to the Dames of Destiny, and approves? You are not a part of [i]my[/i] Destiny Community, and I want nothing to do with you. If I seem like I'm parroting Byf's video and the points he happens to be making, it's simply because the point deserves to be hammered home. Second, to the Dames of Destiny themselves: For those of you who read this, and I sincerely hope you do, I want to say on behalf of my part of the Destiny Community that I am truly sorry that you had to see, experience, and have to endure that kind of utter bullshit. And I am sorry that over the past decade, it hasn't seemed to have gotten noticeably better. I hope that from this point forward, you have to deal with less and less discriminating assholes while you play online, regardless of whether or not it happens to be Destiny. And I hope that, despite everything that happened during the Bungie Bounty stream, it does not deter you from staying strong as a part of this community. [i]Sincerely, Texas Joker 52, esq.[/i]

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  • I'm a girl, and although it's not right to threaten people and so on (regardless of gender) its still just a video game. Everyone threatens everyone and says things they shouldn't. Not a day goes by where I don't say I "-blam!- someone" in crucible or tell someone to suck my non-existent dick. I'm not saying it's okay to threaten people and name-call, I'm just saying the Dames of Destiny should not be treated special just because they're female. The real problem in video games is when a little kid somehow joins your party or is able to hear/speak with you and instead of muting or kicking if you don't want them there people threaten them and use bad language. You should know better, kids are kids, just mute/kick/or deal with it.

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    • Holy sh** you are desperate to lose your virginity

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      • Guys he just trying to do a good thing here leave him alone

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        • I just want to see these people go out into the real world, at work or school, etc. and pull crap like this. I really hope they do, just so that they can suffer proper consequences for their actions. :(

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          • Edited by chemsoldier83: 7/31/2015 8:40:33 PM
            The people who were trolling the dames are assholes for doing that. They are most likely cowards that would lick the shit off your boot in person rather that risk confrontation. And most likely still live in their mother's hoarded house. However freedom of speech is a part of living a free country. It is more important to safe guard individual free expression than someones feelings. As long as your not threating someone or causing a panic (ie saying your going to kill / r a p e them or yelling fire in a crowded threater). Unfortunately there are assholes in the world. But giving someone attention after they insult you is counter productive. Its what they want. And thats what all of these threads are doing. Keeping the spot light on them. So they can laugh with their friends at how mad everyone is. Its the same mind set as middle schoolers. If they dont get the desired reaction trolling becomes less entertaining. The guy in the video acts like people are burning crosses in someones back yard. Its not a crime to say what ever stupid hatefull nonsense is in their head. With the exception of the window licker who threatened to -blam!- one of the girls. Thats certainly crossing a line. PS - Im not a white knight. Im just really bored and waiting to leave work right now.

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          • This has been then post of the day that has given me hope for the Destiny community.

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          • OP I feel bad for you. Wow.

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          • The thirst is real.

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          • I, for one, agree that there is too much privacy on the internet. I find it cowardly and horrible when someone hides behind a screen to cloak their identity while saying words that they would almost never say irl. Shameful. Bungie needs to start banning people the way they did in Halo 3. Too much of privacy creates a problem. The dose makes the poison.

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          • Thank you, there's someone who isn't a complete moron here.

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          • no one cares

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          • M'lady.

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          • Lol, this is funny

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          • What a total f.aggot

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          • 👍

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          • I'm all for the abolishment of political correctness and Internet people who get offended too easily. However, I believe in equal opportunity. If you didn't beat the dames personally, you have no right to talk smack about them. In the event you did play them, and beat them, talk smack the same way you would against anyone else you beat. Call them a noob. Tell them their weapons suck. It has nothing to do with the fact they are women. When I finally beat Skolas for the year one triumph, it was with a woman from LFG. I don't care who you are. I only care if you are down to ride. Equal treatment doesn't mean giving certain groups preferential treatment. It means treat women and men, blacks and white, etc - the same. If I beat you, I can talk smack that I beat you as a person, end of story. Nothing else is relevant. If I haven't played you, I sure as hell cant talk shit, based on whatever group you belong to. If you want to talk shit. Back it up. The dames probably kicked your sad little ass. Now please excuse me while I go bang my wife, and see if Xur has anything useful.

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          • White Knight confirmed

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            • http://imgur.com/iDPgTAs

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              • BOYZZZ VS GIRLZZZ Grow the -blam!- up people, we arnt in kindergarten anymore

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              • Have some Gatorade, it quenches thirst.

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              • Ha! Gaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy!

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              • White Knight

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              • Oh boohoo. While we're at it, why don't we hold hands, sing kumbaya, in our pyjamas, then have a nice pillow-fight (but not too rough) before we break pinatas full of apples and oranges (wouldn't want to ruin our teeth) with inflatable hammers (sticks may break bones) and jump on our unicorns to ride off into the sunset through a field of flowers with butterflies flying everywhere.

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              • Women shouldn't play videa games, they already play childish mind games. Making you feel bad when they were wrong. Twats.

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              • Keep your head up man. I agree with you, people need to lighten up. Cheers

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              • Too bad they weren't the ones targeted. Everyone is watching Byfs video only to be misconceived

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