I believe you are just suffering from a game grinding addiction. Destiny by its nature feeds that addiction, and therefore becomes the target of your frustration. I am sure if you played any other game that feeds into that same particular addiction, you would think it the problem. Destiny is not the problem. The problem Is that you have a gaming addiction. Focus on solutions to that, and not on how or why destiny is sucking everyone in to play it all the time. I struggle with this some, but I identified long ago that the problem was mine, and not that of games. Only you can control you.