I understand your point of view. I need to point out Bungie is approaching this the wrong way and just creating more backlash. They created this situation to begin with and it has more to do with trying to get things done in the least amount of time. If people were allowed to connect with strangers IN THE GAME it would be easier for people to get into groups. If it was IN THE GAME Bungie could take action against people who kick for crappy reasons, or the douchebags. But it is not.