Oh how the opinions of those who've never experienced anything first hand themselves are the fastest to point a finger and call wrong doing. Please let me know how you handle someone literally trying to kill you. This isn't the place for a debate like this so I'm not going to go into it. But I can assure you "trying to talk them out of it" doesn't work. And before you can even say "well you shouldn't have been there" for the most part I can agree to an extent sure. But would you sit idly by while someone regardless of the scenario was trying to kill you or your loved ones?