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6/19/2015 4:39:34 AM
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Loneliness
I don't have any friends. I'm always alone and have no one to talk to. Well I talk to people on the internet, but they never stick around for long. I want to talk to people I know I can trust and who understand me. Anytime I let people in, I feel like they get annoyed with me but are too nice to be honest with me and then I stop talking to them because I don't want to be a bother. I normally just pretend like I'm perfectly fine in front of my family and people I know on the internet, and I cry alone. Has anyone else ever been in my position before? How did you handle it?
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2 RepliesI've been in a similar situation and actually still am. Unfortunately, I have no way to handle it, I tend to feel a lot of pain everyone now and then, sometimes I start to tear. There's no one to speak about my feelings. So really it just boggles up inside to the point where I just want to die. But you know, I still try to live on.
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2 RepliesLoneliness is the worst feeling! I feel your sadness. I was 19 years old and get drug addicted for 4 years. I've had lost all my friends! Now I'm 28 and never touched a drug again! At the time I stopped I had this terrible feeling that I'm all by myself and No one understood me. I felt empty and didn't see any light! Then I realised I have to change something and started to do sport. This helped me a lot I met some people that was also interrested in the same kind of sport I did. Now I'm married since 2013 and have a meaning in my life! Tbh the first steps were the hardest but you are the only one who can change your life. Find something you are interested in and then you'll find people who share your interests! The rest will follow! You'll see, I promise you. Feel free to ask me anything! I'll try to help you!
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I know them feels You just have to learn how to let people through your walls and to trust yourself and to trust them. Find people who make you feel confident/comfortable and hang out with them. You need to surround yourself with the kinds of people that make you feel good and wanted.
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Seriously though man, if you ever need to talk pm me.
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4 RepliesEvery living thing dies alone.
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2 RepliesYou could have some kind of anxiety disorder?
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3 RepliesI'm I the only one who likes being lonely?
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3 RepliesDo you have a job?
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1 ReplySocial issues like this are so common now, i to have delt with this for most of my life. The only way to deal with this is to become more social, its hard i know but its better than feeling alone and missing out in life. I started by listening to a podcast called the Art of Charm, it's very informative podcast about creating relationships and expanding your social life, give it a chance if you're interested.
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7 RepliesI think something that could be important is just being confident in yourself. If someone doesn't like you then that's their loss. I assume you do better with one on one situations rather than a large crowd? I am that way. It would be cool if you could find someone that you could just be a close friend that you could be honest with and just someone to vent to. Everyone needs someone that is a friend. I wish you well and i am always available via pm if you need someone to talk to :)
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2 RepliesPuberty will pass.
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7 RepliesI don't know what you are complaining for. I f*cking hate people. I prefer to be reclusive and alone. Maybe there is something wrong with the way you act around people. Just stop talking when you are around people and listen to how others act. Stop craving human interaction.
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1 ReplyYou're all little girls.
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8 RepliesHang yourself
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2 RepliesI'm an expert in loneliness. hanging over me my whole life
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3 RepliesIf you feel like you have some form of social anxiety that is preventing you from taking initiative and talking to people I suggest a psychiatrist or some form of therapy. I had a mate that was in your position, and I came flat out and told him that he needed to see someone professional about his predicament and in a few weeks it really helped him to get started. Best of luck ;)
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1 ReplyWell I'm sorry, but I've never really been in your posistion before. All I can reccomend is perhaps talking to more people. Sorry.
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1 ReplyI'm not but I know a lot of people that are.fight through get help and you are not alone
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6 RepliesI have been here, but it was my choice. Its hard to find friends or girlfriends, but you need to stop pretending to be perfect. Stop thinking that you annoy them, if thay cant handle chatter and bather than -blam!- um? Dont let things like this bring you down dude.. I know most ppl wil say that you need to stop beeing a bitch, and wen you want to focus on your job that your wasting your life. My "friends" started doing drugs and drinking the entire day, that wassent me. I want to touch girls and work! So i did, i went trough 6 years not having 1 single friend and it was pretty nice for me. I worked 200+ hours a month, i hanged out with beautifull and intelligent girls allot and what ever you think. Thay make you a better person and getting attention from girls like this wil make you feel invincible and better than anny guy friend ever wil. Now 6 years later iv played my own house (no morgages) and have the best job in the world. And a perfect girlfriend who lifts more than i play destiny and cooks for me.. So yeah i guess it worked out fine:p Do wat you wanna do and wat feels good to you.
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1 ReplyI know you don't know me and what I say probably doesn't mean much but honestly... I've been there before and it feels like your on a dead end road with no one to turn to when you need guidance or just a friend to talk. I'm here if you need to vent or even play some games with you or whatever. Just stay positive and I promise things will work out for you.
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1 Reply[quote]I don't have any friends. I'm always alone and have no one to talk to. Well I talk to people on the internet, but they never stick around for long. I want to talk to people I know I can trust and who understand me. Anytime I let people in, I feel like they get annoyed with me but are too nice to be honest with me and then I stop talking to them because I don't want to be a bother. I normally just pretend like I'm perfectly fine in front of my family and people I know on the internet, and I cry alone. Has anyone else ever been in my position before? How did you handle it?[/quote]
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6 RepliesI am very familiar with this feeling sometimes. My advice would be to talk to a professional. It will help.
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Deal with it
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6 RepliesWhat console do you play on?
