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Edited by Esko:
6/17/2015 5:04:42 PM
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i need help. i might be going insane...
so thers a girl. like always.
i went on a date with her a few months ago but she didnt like it and i dont know why she asked me to go. she is way out of my league (like 9/10 to my 3/10).
anyway, she told me that she wasnt interested in me and i was a little heartbroken after that. but i got over it.
so here is the problem.
i dont think of her as much anymore, but when i do i think of physical violence. to her and to the people around me at that time.
last week, i actually became worried about myself after an extreme "idea". its not like -blam!- or anything btw
ill never actually proceed with any of these things but it worries me. pls help me.
tl;dr girl that i dont like anymore makes me get angry thoughts
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4 RepliesYou'll be fine. I've been here before (not over a girl though) and the thoughts of committing murder cross my mind all the time. You are just stressed and also feeling jealousy. Try thinking of her in a positive way. The silver lining in your short term relationship is that you actually got to have her in your life even for a small moment. You can't make someone love you otherwise love wouldn't be real. If you can't get over her then the best that you can do is stay nice for her and hope that she meets someone who will provide her with happiness. It might suck to keep wishing that you were "the guy" for her but if you want to be a "man" to her and still love her while getting over her then you should appreciate her choice. You don't have to be in a relationship to love someone, just be open, kind, and accepting for those that you feel close to.
