I've considered posting this for a while now. I am now because... well why not? I'm bored and wanna see what you can come up with.
Let me first start off by saying that I'm not gonna waste any time replying to foolish, immature, or spam. If the fact that I am a Christian upsets you to the point where you have some hurtful words to say, please do it in a private message. Otherwise, I will look at it as a selfish way of trying to garnish attention to yourself.
I have been raised in a Christian household my entire life. Now when I say that, I don't mean I was in church every Sunday or prayed before every meal or before I went to sleep at night. I was saved in my early teens along with some of my closest friends that I attended church with. I then drifted away from my faith as high school and college rolled around. Over the past year or so, I've rediscovered my faith and redefined myself as a man. I've been to church, reading my bible, participating in bible studies, youth groups and events, as well serving at my church running the sound board and helping out wherever I can.
I'm comfortable enough with my faith to be asked questions, to be persecuted, and to be doubted and called foolish. Then again, it doesn't seem to matter what you believe in, we all face these things.
I don't have all the answers but I'm curious to see what you've got for me and I'll do my best to answer whatever it is you can conjure up for me.
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[quote]>Been talking to a woman >Hung out quite a few times >Talk a lot >She tells me that things aren't going so well in her home life (personal issues with an ex) >I suggest we hang out when I get back to take a break from it all (I work out of town) >She tells me that she's a mess >I tell her I like messes >Now she seems to be avoiding me and gives me one word answers when I text her There was plenty of flirting during our other talks, and hanging out, so it wasn't really out of place or awkward.. Without posting our actual conversations I guess it's not in full context; but I picked up on the vibe that we could be more than friends, not that it was explicitly discussed but it was definitely there. How should I take this? My initial instinct is to just pull back, and reel in my attention towards her; but I don't feel like "losing my progress" so to speak, because if she is/was interested I don't want her to feel like I moved on. Anyways, thoughts? Ideas? And yes I already know, OP is a fgt.[/quote]