I don't see why people think you're such a bad person. This is a competitive game type. It was made to be that way more so than any other game type in destiny. So why would people get mad at you for stopping people from getting further. I feel like that's the point for the good players to advance by beating down anybody that isn't that good and having good games with people that are. People say bungie messed it up but it seems like this is exactly what was supposed to happen.