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Edited by xxMantarAxx:
5/20/2015 3:40:27 PM
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My new girl wants me to quit Destiny
Every time I try to sit down and enjoy my favorite game she finds some crazy reason to pull me away.
When things started off I was like "yeah she's a little needy but I can handle that." Now it feels like she is controlling my life.
Things got heated on the 19th when I was in the middle of a prison of elders run when she walked by and just turned off the xbox. It was an obvious cry for more of my attention. Im torn as to what to do.
She demands that I wake when she does even though or schedules are way different.
She demands that I meet her special dietary needs for every meal, no exception.
She demands that I do EVERYTHING with her. Hell she even makes me be there when she uses the bathroom!
She can be a real bitch but man she is gorgeous and we have so much fun together. Destiny is the only thing we fight about on a daily basis. I may be crazy but I think im in love. Can there be room in my life for both or must I choose? Just one look at her and you would know why I cant quit her.
[spoiler] Her name is Ginny, she's my 2month old wire hair griffon http://postimg.org/image/qu8hx3oyb/[/spoiler]
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10 RepliesOk, im guessing you want real help. Here you go... Take a breath, sit down with her and tell her "we need to talk". That will get her attention. Now you both need to talk to each other and discuss these kinds of things. TOGETHER. Both of you will have to make sacrifices. You shouldn't be meeting her on her side. You should be meeting each other half way. Dont get mad during the discussion, dont raise your voice. Dont sound annoyed. Just talk calmly and caringly about the situation. She should understand and even want to lay down some ground rules. If she flat out refuses to budge and help you help the relationship, thats her fault. Not yours. But both of you really need to sit down, relax, and talk about it all. The who, what, where, when, why, etc. Make sure she knows why you like to play games and try to understand what she wants from you. Take it from me. I am currently in going onto 4 years in June with my girl. She knows i love games (she hates that i love them). But we compromise. Especially when new games come out, i tel her "hey this is what im doing this day and that day". Be respectful, but dont let yourself get walked on by her. Its not right.
