Do you love her? Her being gorgeous is a sign of lust. Not love. She sounds about as needy as my wife. But my wife loves me so she was able to adjust. Sit her down and explain to her that every other moment of the day is spent on her. But you need your own time as well. A relationship should not be one sided. She has to appreciate that you may like something she doesnt like and she will have to accept that if she loves you. There is no point being in a relationship where you cannot be yourself. Love is acceptance and surrender. If Destiny takes up 100% of your time then its you that beeds to change. If its only 10% and she cant handle it. Its her that needs to change. A dog is not just for christmas :)