I am in the same boat as the o.p. Job, kids, wife and not enough hours in the day. I play maybe 3 hours a day after work and after the kids are in bed. I have managed to get everything accomplished in the game so far without matchmaking. Weekly Heroics have been graced with matchmaking, and it was horrible. I used to solo it every week, now i get spawned in with 2 other people and 95% of the time one of them just sits there AFK and tries to get a free pass. Now apply that to a six man raid, your going to have 2 people trying to get a free ride, 2 without a microphone, and probably 1 level 26-30 on their first run, also without a mic. Trials of Osiris is also something you will not want matchmade as well. 3 random people with no mics trying to win 10 games in a row, good luck! Im with this guy, try to find an adult clan, that would be a good choice, most clans work the same shift and same timezones. If you can not do that forums are still going to get you better results than matchmaking ever will. If you play on Xbone hit me up bro!