I have a dilemma in my life. two girls. Both of them i have known for a very long time, one likes me, but i dont like her, i like the other one. That wouldnt be so bad under normal circumstances but the problem here is that they're sisters and i wish i didnt have to hurt one to be with the other. The one that likes me is very artsy and sensitive, which is great but the one i like is strong and athletic (in great shape ;). Just more my type of girl. What should i do to avoid hurting the one that likes me? And how should i approach the situation with the other sister?
[spoiler]btw their names are the palm sisters[/spoiler]
English
-
Why not both?
-
I would say that your hands are tied. Female here with sisters. And I would estimate that there is a 98% that the athletic sister knows how much the artsy sister likes you, and so there is a good chance, if she's a good sister, that she will turn you down. And then the artsy girl will of course find out since they are sisters, which makes you look like an ass. And you may end up losing both of them.
-
That's a sensitive situation. I, myself, would probably tell her, straight up, that I don't like her, but I like her sister. Which may seem pretty blunt and mean, but if she found out on her own that you like her sister, and possibly even started dating her, I feel like she would be even more hurt and disappointed than if you tell her.
-
send the 1 u dont like a long essay text and shell get over it either way shell get hurt though u cant avoid it