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Discuss all things Destiny.
Edited by Bolbotron: 4/17/2015 8:50:54 AM
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To the Guardians in a relationship.

TL;DR What strategy / tips and tricks do you use to charm your better half into letting you play more video games? I've always been a keen gamer, there's something about the combination of strategic thinking / problem solving / character developing / sense of accomplishment / knowledge building / generally have a really fun time that equates to a very addictive hobby (as I'm sure all of you are aware). My girlfriend of 3 years used to work a mix of morning / night shifts which meant that for a few days a week I would have 6 hours of uninterrupted gaming after work, I was part of a fairly serious bf3/bf4 squad and i must have had circa 600 hours invested into them + another few hundred into a race league/forum i competed in on forza 5. Last year she got a new job last year with a 9-5 mon-fri schedule just like myself(minus my various offshore trips) which is great as we get the weekends together etc however my gaming time has taken a major hit due to this. I've only put in around 115 hours into destiny since i bought it and have barely touched my other games as she likes to spend time together and admittedly Destiny + most games nowardays are very individual focused and I do find my self become very engrossed in games. Obviously there are things in life more important than gaming however that doesn't stop it from being one of my favorite past-times. For anyone who finds themselves in a similar situation, how do you maximize your play time whilst keeping your partner happy?

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  • I just play when my wife is working (she be a night shift nurse at the moment.. so I get 3 evenings a week at least as long as she doesn't get called off.). Also, there is something to be said when you both engage in each other's passions. I'm sure you do things that she explicitly loves and enjoys, so why would it seem so ludicrous to ask her to sacrifice a little time to enjoy Destiny (or gaming) in general with you? I'm not saying a marathon, but just time here and there. Also, I use gaming as a decompressor from my job's demanding hours and she understands that I just need to sit and play sometimes to do that. it's a balance, but it is one that can be achieved trough communication of expectations. [spoiler]Just make sure you're setting your priorities right, if my wife every needed something or was feeling neglected I would drop playing Destiny at that time to be with her, hands down. [/spoiler]

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