TL;DR What strategy / tips and tricks do you use to charm your better half into letting you play more video games?
I've always been a keen gamer, there's something about the combination of strategic thinking / problem solving / character developing / sense of accomplishment / knowledge building / generally have a really fun time that equates to a very addictive hobby (as I'm sure all of you are aware). My girlfriend of 3 years used to work a mix of morning / night shifts which meant that for a few days a week I would have 6 hours of uninterrupted gaming after work, I was part of a fairly serious bf3/bf4 squad and i must have had circa 600 hours invested into them + another few hundred into a race league/forum i competed in on forza 5. Last year she got a new job last year with a 9-5 mon-fri schedule just like myself(minus my various offshore trips) which is great as we get the weekends together etc however my gaming time has taken a major hit due to this. I've only put in around 115 hours into destiny since i bought it and have barely touched my other games as she likes to spend time together and admittedly Destiny + most games nowardays are very individual focused and I do find my self become very engrossed in games. Obviously there are things in life more important than gaming however that doesn't stop it from being one of my favorite past-times.
For anyone who finds themselves in a similar situation, how do you maximize your play time whilst keeping your partner happy?
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all your girl wants is that same level of interaction and excitedness but with your attention on her. I thought my girl hated gaming too, but then i realized its not the game itself, it's the attention and focus. Make sure you can get as excited to see her and spend time with her as you can with your gaming. Thats the real issue