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Edited by Bolbotron: 4/17/2015 8:50:54 AM
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To the Guardians in a relationship.

TL;DR What strategy / tips and tricks do you use to charm your better half into letting you play more video games? I've always been a keen gamer, there's something about the combination of strategic thinking / problem solving / character developing / sense of accomplishment / knowledge building / generally have a really fun time that equates to a very addictive hobby (as I'm sure all of you are aware). My girlfriend of 3 years used to work a mix of morning / night shifts which meant that for a few days a week I would have 6 hours of uninterrupted gaming after work, I was part of a fairly serious bf3/bf4 squad and i must have had circa 600 hours invested into them + another few hundred into a race league/forum i competed in on forza 5. Last year she got a new job last year with a 9-5 mon-fri schedule just like myself(minus my various offshore trips) which is great as we get the weekends together etc however my gaming time has taken a major hit due to this. I've only put in around 115 hours into destiny since i bought it and have barely touched my other games as she likes to spend time together and admittedly Destiny + most games nowardays are very individual focused and I do find my self become very engrossed in games. Obviously there are things in life more important than gaming however that doesn't stop it from being one of my favorite past-times. For anyone who finds themselves in a similar situation, how do you maximize your play time whilst keeping your partner happy?

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  • Usually, my wife is pretty cool with me gaming in the evening after our daughter is asleep. The trick is to spend some time with her before you go strait for the game, talking or whatever. That gets me a couple hours a night. Also, it's pretty much just a part of your continued growth to make other stuff a priority. I love gaming, but I have to be ok with the prospect of never playing again at some point. [spoiler]"Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose." -Yoda[/spoiler]

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