TL;DR What strategy / tips and tricks do you use to charm your better half into letting you play more video games?
I've always been a keen gamer, there's something about the combination of strategic thinking / problem solving / character developing / sense of accomplishment / knowledge building / generally have a really fun time that equates to a very addictive hobby (as I'm sure all of you are aware). My girlfriend of 3 years used to work a mix of morning / night shifts which meant that for a few days a week I would have 6 hours of uninterrupted gaming after work, I was part of a fairly serious bf3/bf4 squad and i must have had circa 600 hours invested into them + another few hundred into a race league/forum i competed in on forza 5. Last year she got a new job last year with a 9-5 mon-fri schedule just like myself(minus my various offshore trips) which is great as we get the weekends together etc however my gaming time has taken a major hit due to this. I've only put in around 115 hours into destiny since i bought it and have barely touched my other games as she likes to spend time together and admittedly Destiny + most games nowardays are very individual focused and I do find my self become very engrossed in games. Obviously there are things in life more important than gaming however that doesn't stop it from being one of my favorite past-times.
For anyone who finds themselves in a similar situation, how do you maximize your play time whilst keeping your partner happy?
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My lovely lady doesn't mind me playing video games. What I do is I'll make sure that if I'm on a mic, I'll frequently mute myself to talk to her. If she wants to share something with me, I'll look away from the screen if I won't ruin someone else's experience. Be conscious of her presence, and offer her as much attention as you can. It helps that my girlfriend likes watching Destiny. It's surely a pretty game.